Turn-ons: I find it exciting when someone knows exactly what to say at the right moment... Intense looks, playful teasing, gentle but firm commands. I love it when they take control... but be warned, sometimes I'm the one in charge.

Turn-offs: I don't like disrespect, unnecessary rudeness, or negative vibes. Things that bother me include rushing, people who can't appreciate the moment, and those who forget that there's a real person behind the screen.