Turn-ons: good conversation, being spoiled, having my toy controlled and vibed, dildos, blowjobs, dirty talk, PVT shows, getting naked, you watching me, me watching you, (multiple) orgasms, seeing you cum, cumming, cocks of all sizes, pussy, tickling, bondage, serving, being served, and sooo sooo much more...

Turn-offs: ignoring boundaries, not respecing "no", demanding