Turn-ons: Gentle compliments, an attentive and respectful gaze, the way you guide the conversation slowly, giving me time to open up, while you yourself become softer in my presence. I especially love it when there’s a sense of genuine desire and warmth, rather than any feeling of haste.

Turn-offs: rudeness, insolence, pushiness, and when someone immediately starts demanding something intense without any prior getting to know you phase